(Before reading my rant please note that all trials suck but the death of a family member is by far the worst trial someone can go through. I would never wish that on anyone and anyone who has had that may you receive healing and blessings.)
Life sucks some times. 1 year ago I was debt free. I didn't have a fancy car but the bills were being paid easily. Fast forward to now, both vehicles that used to run great are either gone or soon to be sold due to car problems, we bought 2 newer cars on credit. ( No not a car loan. Hell no I won't do that again) One for the family the other for a buisness venture. Our income has went down my buisness venture has not panned out as much as I would like dentist are overcharging us doctors are overcharging us speaking of doctors I have had the worst ear infections in years and that happened right before our first cruise. Our income is slipping I'm working 3 days a week now (I actually enjoy that) I have teeth that need to be fixed that I can't afford. My chest was hurting. I'm not alarmed but can't go to the dr. Credit cards are maxing out on basic essentials and I'm trying out a few government programs. Actually 1 government program the other one I'm just trying to get my kids on chip. But anyways what gives? I didn't tell anyone what I made when we tripled our income in one year. It was as Devine help let us have one year of fun with a TON of restrictions then took it away. You can buy an ATV buuutt it wont run right. You can go to Disneyland buuutt your income will shrink soon after. You can have that house buuutt your income will go down and you'll lose popularity in you buisness. You can go on a cruise buuutt your going to have to fork out 1000 dollars to get your tooth fixed 300 dollars to get your ear fixed suffer through 3 weeks of pain and on the morning when you depart while your still in doubt that you should even go then will you finally find relief.
Don't get me wrong. I believe in being tried and tested. But havn't I already been tried and tested. Didn't the several expensive dr visits try and test me. The ones others had help with through government programs and I didn't. Wasn't I tried and tested when I skipped out on college to work hard and have a family while others went to college had families through government assistance and church assistance and again I did not. Even when I thought I finally was being rewarded for my many years of trials barely making it. Selling my blood for formula barely seeing my family. I have one excellent year but within that year marriage problems vehicle breakage medical problems and even financial problems. Money won't fix my problems but lack of it does make it worse. Honestly I know am going to have trials and don't expect a perfect life but I do wonder why others lives our more perfect than mine because of financial well being. If only I could taste their life for half of my life while they taste mine for half of theirs. We all have trials yet I still contend some trials are worse than others.
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