Saying goodbye to a frienemy.

Written the first weekend of my two week vacation.

I always knew that there would be a day that this would happen. It was written since a friend of mine crossed the line. I guess I might of been hoping that some day he would realize his mistake say he was sorry we could be friends who hung out every time we visited. Unfortunately it's finally ended just like I thought it would through none other than an unfriending on Facebook.

They were are first friends when we moved to utah "our couple". They had no friends his wife needed someone to socialize with and so did mine. It was perfect. Over time I slowly realized that they craved their life without kids back. They found their couple with no kids and quickly switched gears and spent most of their time with them. Both of us tried to keep the relationship alive but due to us moving away them ditching a babysitting appointment and then them moving our relationship slowly faded to nothing. I did want to unfriend him after the baby sitting incident but I think I wanted to get emotional revenge. Maybe I did.
They are mentioned in my first post. One of the main reasons I have this blog. I was sick and tired of getting taken advantage of by families who were subsidized through family or government programs and then flaunting their easy life's on their blog. I really did have a poor life and because of that friends slowly faded away. If your not fun and exciting to hang out with and you have no funds (money) they were gone. Thats happened to me twice.

Well it's done now. One more step  achieved to get to my ultimate goal of moving on deleting my past feelings forgiving and moving on.

To you P.B. Thanks for being a friend when we both needed a friend. Thank you for your help during our desperate need for someone to take our kids especially during our unfortunate dr visits. May your life be fulfilling and maybe someday we still will have a chance to be friends.