catchup time

So if you were reading my blog before you would of realized I had a lot more blog posts and all of a sudden they all vanished. Let me explain what happened.  I don't know how (honestly I don't remember) but my wife and I got into an argument where she eventually left the house. I would have text her but I was able to know without her knowledge that  she was alright because she had not logged off of her facebook on my kindle so I could read her Facebook messages without her knowing and they were all normal which led me to believe she was in good spirits even though she was somewhat mad at me. Anyways I needed to go to the store that night and forgot my phone. When I came home I noticed her upstairs where my phone was getting up and going downstairs.  I checked my phone and realized she had called me and she was on my phone.  I pulled up my chrome browser and there was a salt lake city divorce lawyer website. My heart sank. I became very fearful that she found something on my phone  that I could easily explain but at the wrong moment could look wrong so I quickly looked up my history and the only thing I realized on there was my blog I looked up. She doesn't know about the blog. The only thought I had was I bet she is reading this on her phone and gathering fuel for her divorce case. So I logged on and deleted every blog but the first one. The first blog is my foundation. It's the reason I started my blog. Well I decided instead of asking question or bringing up the divorce website I would just send her a text and tell her that i still think she's awesome and a great mom because she really is even when we fight. And that ended the fight and healed our relationship. That's the story.  I'm not planning on rewriting all the blogs but I do plan on revisiting my ideas and frustrations especially car loan frustration because if you read my blog before you would know how much I loath car payments.